"The Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate’ you’ll feel calm. No anxiety, no agitation"
Monica Drake- Clown Girl (via yeezy2016)
YES. THIS. THANK YOU. I hate that everyone assumes love is this traumatic, knee shaking, terrifying thing full of rollercoaster emotions! half the descriptions of “when you know it’s the one” sound really unpleasant to me!
(Source: sweetcheeksaremadeofthese, via notthatkindofanna)
Alright every single one of you and myself included have been in a predicament where we need to make a choice and we talk about it with our closest friends and you feel you don’t know what to do.
I have come to my own realization that we are all crazy. Yes we get choices and ultimatums but bottom line, you KNOW what is best for you. You know which choice is the one you SHOULD make but you are still gunna wine and gripe and magically hope you can get out of it.
This isn’t talking about following your dreams or “getting a real steady job”, that is a stupid choice, the obvious answer is do what you wanna do. But generally everything from diets, to course selection, to vacation plans and even your own limits, you know what is best for you.
I’m still gunna bitch and talk to my friends about it but I’ve decided I am just going to suck it up and pick what is best for me because I have been myself my whole life and I know what choice is best for me even if it’s the hardest one.
Life can throw curve balls and you might regret a choice but really, it’s an experience and that was life kicking your ass, it’s better to let the universe be a bitch to you then you fucking over yourself.
That’s just what I gotta say about that.